Why do we shout when we are angry?

Sometimes, especially before the full moon, the things stir up. No matter how good your intentions may be, someone might get upset. Then your mind gets infected by the arrows of these thoughts and your peace is gone. In those moments I usually think about, what someone that I consider much more evolved would do. The answer is always love.
You do not add oil to the fire, you add love, you pray and you observe. See what is your lesson there and what you can do to change things.
Visualise the pink bubble, going around the person, situation and yourself. We all see the world through our pink glasses and might think we are better or worse then other. But at the end of the day, we are all evolving, and the thing we should be giving to each other is love and understanding.
So next time when someone gives you present that you don't like, in the form of the deeds or words that don't contain love, refuse to take them.
How? Bless, send the love, and that is all you can do. For them and yourself. Remember, how people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours!
 Once I came across the brilliant speaker called Asha Praver on the You tube. The first thing she said was: "You know the tree by their fruit". Her advice was, when we want to start doing something to observe the people that are doing that for some time.
Can we see them as our role model?
That day, Asha changed my life. I looked the fruits around me, and I couldn't find the one that I want to became alike. I realised it is time to go within and see where I am in my life, what I want and where I'm going. The door opened very shortly after that realisation. It is not something that you "shout" to the world, or try to persuade others to go only that way. It is the "quiet" way of the heart. And that is my way.
I'm growing the tree that will be known by its fruit. I'm watering it with hope, love and I ask your blessings to help me share its fruits that will inspire the World. This post is the part of that tree.
When it seems hard, when you think that you are right and others are wrong, when you are angry, try something my friend Vanessa Anseloni thought me: Feel the Good, Visualise the Good, mould your life to Good.
Here is a beautiful story, that will inspire you to talk and share the love:
A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take a bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked.
‘Why do people in anger shout at each other?’
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout.’
‘But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.’ asked the saint
Disciples gave some other answers, but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally, the saint explained,
‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small…’
The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’
He looked at his disciples and said.
‘So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant. Do not say words that distance each other more, or there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'

With Love,
Julija